Perfection < Fucked Up

So I watched a movie with a gay friend yesterday.  Wilmer Valderrama was in it.  Something about him immediately turned me on.  I thought about it for a moment and realized it was that his physical features were not really even.  His scruff was a bit more sparse on one side of his cheek than the other; his hair, like it had not been taken care for a while.... Then I remembered being with an ex, him lying on my chest, and me being completely in awe how beautiful the dandruff on his hair was.  His skin died and shed, and he didn't give a fuck, and neither did I.  In fact, it advanced my loving feeling towards him.  I kissed the top of his head.  He was human, and he was mine.  Back to my point... I always found Mario Lopez to be too put together and plastic, and well, unattractive.  Wilmer Valderrama on the other hand, he seems like the kind of guy (based on his appearance in this movie) that would not take 15 min primping and pruning after we put our clothes on to get out of the gym (like all of the guys I work out with do).  He'd be ready, when I'm ready.  I'd find him hot as fuck and would not be annoyed at his idea of being an attractive man.  The ideals that most men hold on beauty, for better or worse, I do not.  Now... to find someone with that same want in a man, that actually has goals in his life.........hmmmmm......